Immanuel Lutheran’s Home Messenger

Volume 27, Issue 6December 2005 

Devotion

Why did They Come?

As with gladness men of old did the guiding star behold;
As with joy they hailed its light, leading onward, beaming bright,
So, most gracious Lord, may we evermore be led by Thee!

[TLH 127:1]

Why did they come…those wise men from the East? Why did they travel so many miles and apparently so many months just to see a baby? They claimed to be seeking the baby who had been born “King of the Jews.” But why such interest in a King of the Jews when Rome and other more powerful nations were in control of the world? The wise men expended all that time and energy, because they were moved by FAITH! They knew of the Old Testament prophecies proclaiming the coming of a Savior who would rule over all people in an everlasting kingdom. They believed the Gospel message that someone—perhaps Daniel—had shared with their fathers so many years before. This Gospel message had apparently been passed down among the wise men of the East and believed for generations!

Why did they come? They came because of HOPE!The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom” (Proverbs 9:10). These wise men were truly wise! They understood that the great problems of mankind—hatred, greed, selfishness, violence, and all forms of sin—proceeded from hearts darkened by spiritual rebellion and separated from God. They realized that any and all hope lay outside the will and might of man and would be found only in the grace and power of God revealed through the promised Savior. When the star appeared announcing the birth of that Savior, they came with their hearts filled with hope that finally God’s solution had come!

Why did they come? They came in view of their JOY! Their hearts were filled with joy when the star appeared once again as they left Jerusalem to go to Bethlehem. They bowed with joy before the young Child when they finally found Him. They worshiped their Savior in joy and presented their gifts: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Then with joy in their hearts they returned to their country confident that the Lord who had fulfilled His promise would indeed accomplish the redemption which the world so desperately needed and upon which they so desperately depended!

Why did they come? They came moved by FAITH, filled with HOPE, and overflowing with JOY! May we too come and join all “wise men” in seeking out and worshipping our Savior and Lord, Jesus!

— Pastor Paul D. Nolting


Family Life in Christ

Encouraging Fathers

Part II

Editor’s Note: The following is part two of an essay presented at the September 2005 Minnesota Delegate Conference. Part one appeared in the October issue of the Immanuel Home Messenger. The author is Mr. Philip Strike, a member of St. John’s Lutheran Church in Okabena, MN. The article appears with Mr. Strike’s permission.

A third major role a father has is that of disciplinarian (the first two were leader and lover). King Solomon revealed that it is the father who disciplines his son: “The Lord disciplines those He loves, as a father the son he delights in” (Proverbs 3:12).

There are many methods of discipline, as well as many attitudes about how discipline should be carried out. The primary goal of Christian discipline is the salvation of souls, the directing of God’s children to Him. The best way to accomplish this is through the proper use of the Law and the Gospel. “Train up [dedicate or start] a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Discipline will be most effective when it is consistent and when you really know your child (see next section).

Paul also tells us that it is ultimately the father’s role to be in charge of discipline. “Fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, lest they be discouraged; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the LORD” (Ephesians 6:4). The first phrase is likely directed at the father because he is more apt to react to problems out of anger. We need to remember to discipline with love, not with anger. Good discipline should begin with self-discipline. Since the father is the one responsible and accountable, he is even to know what the mother does in his absence.

I ENCOURAGE YOU, fellow representatives of God on earth, to take control of the discipline in your home. In a practical sense, this means that a father, as the authority figure, should handle any situations that arise when he is there. If mom handles any problems during the time while he is away, Dad should support the decisions made while he was absent, and he should discuss in depth what has happened throughout the day, offering Spirit-directed advice and help.

A fourth role a father should have is to be a companion with his children. This does not mean chumming around with your children, being like them, or getting them to like you. What it does mean is to get to know your children in a deep sense of the word friend. Probably the best way to do this is through spending time with each of your children and learning as much as you can about them. Close interaction between parent and child will nurture and grow the love between them, and children who know they are loved are much easier to discipline. In the book The Five Love Languages of Children, authors Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell, M.D., suggest that there are five different ways that children (and all people) give and receive love. When their “love tank” is full, aspects of the child’s relationships with other people improve: communication, discipline, performance in school, and other areas.

I ENCOURAGE YOU, fellow children of God, to be encouraging to your children. Learn to recognize and encourage the fruit of the Spirit in them, “…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23). Encourage your children to think of how to serve the Lord in their lives: young men may have the abilities needed to become a pastor. Young ladies or men may show that they could make a good teacher in our Christian Day Schools. Perhaps all they need is for someone (parents first of all) to recognize their gifts and encourage them in that direction. We also need strong lay members in any congregation, and helping children become independent Christians will add to their ability to contribute to a congregation using the gifts with which the Lord has blessed them.

I ENCOURAGE YOU, fellow heirs of heaven, to get to know your children as much as possible. This means that the father needs to discipline himself into a schedule of spending time with each of his children, boys and girls alike. Whether it is time together at a special meal, being involved in a sport together, or some other activity, it will be time well invested in your relationships with your children. A boy needs to see that Dad is the man he will become, the husband he will be, the father he will be, the provider he will be for his family, the leader he will be in his church, and the witness he will be in the world. Give your son a good standard to follow. Likewise daughters need to know their dads. She will learn from her father what men are like. She will see in him the husband she will one day give herself to, the father of her children, the authority figure she will submit to. It seems that often a girl will seek a husband like her father. Become the kind of husband you would like your daughter to marry. More importantly, open up to them the wonderful relationship one can have with our Heavenly Father. How much easier it will be for them to develop that bond when they have a loving earthly father. “If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!” (Matthew 7:11).

We all know that actions speak louder than words. A fifth role that a father should follow is to be an example. This carries over into every aspect of one’s life.

I ENCOURAGE YOU, Christian friends, to continually show by your thoughts, words, and deeds that God is number one in your life, “He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take up his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it” (Matthew 10:37-39).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to read the Bible, encourage others to do so, and apply it to daily life. “Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction; pay attention and gain understanding…Get wisdom, get understanding…Hold on to instruction, do not let it go…” (Proverbs 4:1, 5, 13).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to forgive others as God in Christ has forgiven us. “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses” (Matthew 6:14-15).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to nourish and exercise your faith. “But as for you, continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned them, and that from childhood you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus” (2 Timothy 3:14-15).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to be a witness for Christ to those around you. “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in Him, rooted and built up in Him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ” (Colossians 2:6-8).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to look for God’s hand in everything that happens, both good and bad. “Do not fear, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom” (Luke 12:32). “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28).

In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen Him, you love Him; and even though you do not see Him now, you believe in Him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls” (1 Peter 1:6-9).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to have patience while waiting for the answers God provides. “And Moses said to the people [at the Red Sea], ‘Do not be afraid. Stand still, and see the salvation of the Lord, which He will accomplish for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today, you shall see again no more forever. The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace’” (Exodus 14:13-14).

Remember how Jehoshaphat stood in the congregation of Judah and Jerusalem when being threatened by the presence of the people of Ammon, Moab, and Mount Seir. He prayed to the Lord and reminded Him of His promises to give the land over to the descendants of Abraham, finishing his prayer with “our eyes are upon You” (2 Chronicles 20:12). Then the Spirit of the Lord came upon Jahaziel and he addressed the people with comforting words: “Thus says the Lord to you: ‘Do not be afraid nor dismayed because of this great multitude, for the battle is not yours, but God’s…You will not need to fight in this battle…stand still and see the salvation of the LORD, Who is with you’” (2 Chronicles 20:15, 17).

Rest in the Lord , and wait patiently for Him…” (Psalm 37:7). “Be still, and know that I am God…” (Psalm 46:10).

No temptation had overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, Who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it” (I Corinthians 10:13).

Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord” (I Corinthians 15:58).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to review what you learned during Confirmation classes from the Catechism, for it contains the chief doctrines of Scripture. Luther writes, “Let each his lesson learn with care, and all the household well shall fare.”

I ENCOURAGE YOU to admit when you are at fault and to show daily heartfelt repentance. “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:8-9).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to encourage family giving. “So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to choose with caution the books and magazines you read, the movies and television shows you watch, and the music you listen to. “Whatever things are true…noble…just…pure…lovely…of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy — meditate on these things” (Philippians 4:8).

I ENCOURAGE YOU to care for your body. “Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?” (1 Corinthians 3:16). “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

Finally, I ENCOURAGE YOU to be encouraging to your family and to those around you, showing in all things that you are a Christian. “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you must also do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him” (Colossians 3:12-17).

Now to Him who is able
to do immeasurably more
than all we ask or imagine,
according to His power
that is at work within us,
to Him be glory in the church
and in Christ Jesus
throughout all generations,
for ever and ever! Amen.

Ephesians 3:20-21


Christian Education

The Education of My Child

Editor’s Note: The following is the second part of an essay by Pastor G.W. Fischer. The first part of the essay was titled, “It is MY Child” (Immanuel Home Messenger, October 2005).

It is My CHILD

God has placed my child into my care as a helpless, crying creature, entirely dependant on me for food, clothing, protection, and guidance. All that it later is to be and do my child must first learn. To train this weak and helpless child to become a strong and free man or woman is my divinely appointed duty as parent. It is my biggest job.

My child has inherited my sinful nature. If left to himself he will grow up to love sin, hate God, and become a servant of Satan. The world that surrounds him will make every effort to lure him to the shrine of its lusts where body and soul are sacrificed for life and eternity to the service of Hell.

In holy Baptism my heavenly Father has given my child a new life, redeemed him from the slavery and curse of sin, separated him from the unbelieving and perishing world, and restored him to the eternal heritage of the children of God. The duty to keep him in this baptismal grace God has placed upon me, the parent. I am to give him the “sincere milk of the word that [he] may grow thereby” (1 Peter 2:2) and provide him with the Bread of Life. It is my responsibility to use God’s Word in order to strengthen him against sin and error and all his foes which will through his entire life seek to bring him under the dictatorship of Satan and draw him to Hell.

O Lord, grant me a full measure of Your Holy Spirit that I may measure up to so great a responsibility which You have placed upon me: that my child which is now in the world be not of the world, but remain forever Yours. Amen.

…to be continued

—Pastor G. W. Fischer
From the archives


Bible Knowledge

Christmas Facts

Web Editor’s Note: The answers are below, place your mouse cursor in the box to see the answer.

1) How did Mary and Joseph travel to Bethlehem?
a) camel; b) donkey; c) walked; d) Joseph walked and Mary rode a donkey; e) we don’t know
2) Jesus was delivered in a…
a) hospital; b) house; c) stable; d) barn; e) cave; f) unknown
3) What is frankincense?
a) a precious metal; b) a precious fabric; c) a precious perfume; d) precious incense; e) none of the above
4) What is myrrh?
a) an easily shaped metal; b) a spice used for burying people; c) a drink; d) none of the above.
5) How many wisemen (magi) came to see Jesus?
a) 1; b) 2; c) 3; d) at least two; e) many
6) The wisemen found Jesus in
a) a stable; b) a manger; c) a house; d) none of the above
7) Who told Mary and Joseph to go to Bethlehem?
a) the angel; b) Mary’s mother; c) Herod; d) Caesar Augustus; e) God

Answers:

  1. E

  2. F - The type of building (if any) in which Jesus was born is not mentioned in Scripture

  3. E - Frankincense by itself is a fragrant substance derived from the gum of a tree. It is an ingredient for making anointing oil and incense.

  4. B - Myrrh is another fragrant product of tree sap. It was used for embalming and also as a pain-deadening effect when drunk in combination with a liquid.

  5. D - The Bible doesn’t say how many came, but there were at least two because they are spoken of in the plural.

  6. C - see Matthew 2:11

  7. D


News & Notes

Expansion and Relocation Committee Request

The Expansion and Relocation Committee* has met and is in the process of discussing options that include expanding/maintaining our current facility or relocating our facilities.

As a part of this discussion the committee would like to solicit information about available land in our area. If you have land or know of land that might be available and which our congregation could acquire, please contact committee members Mark Redlin (385-xxxx) or Karen Purrington (625-xxxx). You may also contact one of the pastors with information or comments (Pastor Nolting — 387-7035, Pastor Eichstadt — 344-0898).

The committee values your input and would appreciate any information you are able provide. The committee is praying for the Lord’s direction in its work so that as a congregation we will be able to plan well for the future, be faithful stewards of all that God has entrusted to us, and continue His Kingdom work in and around Mankato. Please keep these matters in your prayers as well!

*The Expansion and Relocation Committee was appointed by the congregation’s chairman at the direction of the voters. The purpose of the committee is to evaluate last year’s feasibility study results and a wide range of options for the congregation’s future facility plans. This committee will report to the voters and make recommendations to the congregation.

The committee members are: Mark Redlin (chairman), Scott Kruse (Board of Deacons), Matthew Busch (Board of Education), Jake Busse (Board of Property), Jim Buckley (Board of Finance), David Busse (Long Range Planning Committee), Michael Wheaton (ILS Faculty), Karen Purrington, and Diane Lentz.


WHITEWATER WINTER CAMP

January 27-29

Sign-up coming soon!


CLC Women’s Retreat

The 7th annual “CLC Women's Retreat” is set for three days (April 21, 22, & 23, 2006) at the Schwan Retreat and Conference Center, a wonderful facility outside of Trego, WI (about 2 hours north of Eau Claire). Immanuel Church of Mankato sponsors the retreat.

Bible sessions will be based on Proverbs 24:3-4 which says, “By wisdom a house is built and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” Sessions will focus on the application of this truth to our lives.

Saturday afternoon will feature various “mini sessions” that treat topics of interest to women. Sunday will include a worship service.

Please pick up a registration brochure from the narthex table.


ILS Locker Project

The School Locker Project has now been completed. All money to fund the purchase and installation of 120 lockers has been received. As you may have noticed, the lockers in the upper school hallway were installed, along with the installation of new carpet, in October, 2005. The lockers for the lower hallway have arrived and are awaiting installation during Christmas break. The new lockers are a foot taller than the old lockers and provide more storage for each student. We thank our Savior for moving the hearts of so many people to support this project. We also thank everyone who contributed to the project with their time, financial resources, and prayers! May we truly appreciate what the Lord has given us!


ANNUAL VOTERS MEETING

January 16, 7:00 p.m.

Voters and those eligible to become voters—come and be involved with the work of Immanuel!


Plans are progressing for a marriage retreat, a parenting seminar, and a teen discussion series. More information will be announced very soon!